Look for your weaknesses and turn them into strengths; you look for your strengths and turn them into superpowers. Train how you fight. It’s a mantra of martial artists, soldiers, and athletes the world over, but it can be applied to almost every aspect of life. The essence of the saying is this. When…

We were having coffee in our customary coffee shop — iced coffee, to beat the Texas summer heat — when my client put her head in her hands and said, “What do you do to wake up happy every morning?” My client — let’s call her Ann — and I…